Archive for ‘Human’

April 14, 2013

What is it to be experienced?

To have experiences is not the same as being experienced. Having experiences is associated with lifestyle and how much one has aged. But being experienced depends on how much one learns from his experiences. It is possible that one undergoes the same experience for years, without learning anything from it. People who do not learn from their experiences tend to become pessimistic and bitter. Therefore, between two people who have had similar experiences, the one who is happier is likely more experienced.

March 22, 2013

On the importance of ideas

Some ideas, even if they do not have any representative in reality, are better to be thought about than not. Perfection is one of such ideas. There may have never been a perfect person, in its true meaning. But believing in and thinking about the idea of perfection, can touch our point of view towards life and change our behavior deeply. Ideas that give meaning to life are worth considering just because of introducing meaning to life.

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February 24, 2013

The true friends

The truest friends are those whom we trust most. The sign of trusting them is that we will not use many defensive mechanisms before them, defensive mechanisms such as hiding aspects of our being, trying not to speak everything we think or always trying to protect our character and self from being altered.

July 20, 2012

Criticism

If a criticism provokes anger, then it means there is some truth in the criticism.

April 8, 2012

Finding moral people

If you wonder how much values people have in their lives which they hold dear, look how much predictable they are. The unpredictable people rarely have strong moral values to which they stick.

April 2, 2012

Sharing beauties

I cannot bear all these beauty on my own,
Either I will find a soul to share with,
Or I will die…

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March 24, 2012

On the source of happiness

The fact that we easily get used to our environment and living place, means that in the long run, they have little effect on our happiness. Where ever we live, we are as happy as we like our beings.

March 18, 2012

Tender feelings

Tender feelings materialize out of difficulties, for difficulties give us the chance to be humble and to be more understanding of other people.

March 18, 2012

Joy of being

More than anything you are blessed with existence. This is enough to be absolutely happy, regardless of anything else.

September 5, 2011

Keeping love

Love is a strong desire for beauty/truth. Just like any other feeling and desire, it happens when the person has tasted a little bit of beauty and has enjoyed it, hence the craving for more. Therefore, to fall in love, one has to be exposed to beauty (in its general meaning). Being exposed to beauty means having it inside, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It is us, as humans, who create beauty. So for someone to have some glimpse of beauty, he needs to fulfill some prerequisites, that is to be clean and free from things that are opposing to beauty. Thus, being clean and free are essential prerequisites for falling in love, and staying in love as well. If someone already in love, loses one of these essentialities, he will lose love as well.
Here lies the secret that the strong and passionate love between lovers usually disappears after they reach each other. After they start living together, they get used to it, like someone gets used to alcohol and drugs. Consequently, they lose their free will, an essential prerequisite of love, and as a result their love. So they should be careful to always love one another freely, not out of obligation.